Forgive me, but maybe you are operating on the wrong relationship paradigm. We are all boring after a little while. We all carry lots of baggage and biases. The closer two people become the easier it is for us all to find/feel/see irritants unconsciously awaiting heat to ignite.

You seem to be an attractive, bright and talented woman. So, here is my two cents — forget Disney. Get a grip. Life is short. Stop looking for THE one. Find someone (or few) that are real, interesting in a 360 way and out of the box fun. Play, be real and take it as it comes.

Doc Huston